It is true that sometimes we have to be independent. It is not surprising if the person you are dependent on may disappoint you in any way. For example, you are upset and plan to spend some fun time with the person you lean on, eventually it may not end up with happiness but another sorrow. What for? Don't you think we should grab our happiness on our own but not relying on others? When you can be so independent and used to do all these alone, what would happen next? You no longer need anyone. It sounds impossible but theoretically it is true.
